Originally Posted by TheSquealer

I have a great deal of respect for signupdamnit and those like him.

It takes a great deal of strength and courage to wake up every single day, knowing he'll fail, yet still get out of bed in the morning... and he faces that fact.... as painful as it must be. It does takes a huge amount of effort to try to not only figure out who to blame for his failing but then to diligently draft post after post explaining how any and all of his failures can only be the fault of others. Usually, they are stealing from him. Meanwhile, he likely has no care, a day job and his parents are surely tired of him living at home and probably breathing down his neck day in and day out and he has to deal with that shit as well.

This business is exactly like everything else in life. You get out of it, what you put into it. Until you learn to blame yourself, accept personal responsibility you will fail time and time again (as many here experience). This is because you can't change all the things and people you blame for your failures. You can however change yourself. So many of you fucking idiots wake up in the morning not only expecting to fail, but already blaming someone else.... and then often act baffled at your lack of success. Excuses, excuses, excuses. Imagine a coach that constantly told you that you couldn't win. Imagine a military commander that kept telling you it was hopeless. Imagine a CEO telling the crew they would probably fail. Imagine Martin Luther King telling people "eh... you know, you'll probably fail and its not your fault". So many on this forum wake up every single day and then dedicate every minute of the day to exactly this to yourselves and then seem genuinely confused as to what you can't make anything work.

It's a pretty obvious and simple fact that cam sites have unique fraud issues to face that are unique to cam sites. Users make multiple charges per day and have 6 months usually to charge it all back. It's a great place to use stolen cards. It's a great place for some Romanian dickhead to use stolen cards to buy privates for his girlfriend so she makes 100.00 a day in commissions. As Tofu explained, its very common for users to become obsessed with a girl, run up 1000s in transactions and then ultimately have remorse, get caught by the spouse, fall on hard times or whatever and charge all the money back. There are plenty of people here that could offer great advice and help... but no one can help anyone that is determined to fail and that believes they will fail.