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Old 07-30-2013, 02:25 PM  
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Originally Posted by Jay-Rock View Post
Get involved with porn social circles and the same people that come to your parties will jump on the bandwagon to throw you under the bus as soon as they get the chance. I had people around me that I trusted and helped out even come back to shove knifes in my back as soon as they had the chance. I wont get into details, but after I had this type of experience a few times I stopped going to porn parties, stopped posting my good times on Twitter, and never hung out with porn circles again unless I was doing business or getting laid. This kept me out of trouble the last 2 years I was in LA but the haters lasted a good 6 months after that. I am sure its the same situation for others in porn. Run with the dogs, get fleas. If I was Jay I would limit who I hang out with in this industry and hang out with people outside of the industry to have a good time. Its not worth the trouble these people are all fake to your face then stab you in the back when you aren't looking. Some porn clients are quite 2 faced as well but I wont get into that I have always kept my problems to myself and not posted them on GFY for the whole industry to gather their opinions.

I guess my point is these porn social circles can be fun but also can be very dangerous and you can't really trust anyone even if they seem genuinely sincere about being your friend and having your back. Porn people will cut each others throats if it means they can make themselves look better or advance from it.

I got an invite to the party where Jay got in that big fight and I had already learned my lesson before then so I declined.. I haven't been to a porn party or event in over 3 years. Fuck that.
Well said and very on point!


Now you know why you don't see me at too many social functions.


But you need to actually go through it to learn it. Cant learn it through what people tell you. Been there done that.



Jay and I are friends. Love that guy!! Great guy and class a act. Good person, with a good heart and he always has the best intentions. But I cant hang out and party with him often when there are a shit ton of other porn people. I just know, that it will end up not good.(I know I too can be a dumb ass when I'm drunk)



I have had a lot of fun in the past and would talk to everyone and I got along well with everyone. People would ask me what I did and I would tell them.(Thats when U get haters!) But now, I say I'm a PA, and I just let my work do all of my talking for me.


And To Jay Rock: I saw what happened to him as it was happening. Super talented guy, with drive and know how. Great work ethic and his skills were getting better and better month by month. Jay Rocks skills and talent grew faster than anyones I have ever known in this business. As Jay Rock got really good, is when he started getting the serious hate.


I would hear it almost daily from girls and other guys. But I knew Jay Rock and I knew he was getting the hate because of his skills, not because he did something so bad.


Me? I am super nice, easy to get along with, very professional, never banged any of these girls and I still seem to get hate from people that don't know me.



HATE=SUCCESS


Thats my 2 cents on this situation.


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