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Originally Posted by kane
I can think of several reasons.
Many women in their 20's think older guys are gross, or when they think of dating an older guy they think of George Clooney.
Many people in their 20's (and many beyond) are still stuck on looks. They might find a guy in his 20's hot while a guy 10 years old is not.
Many women want a project. They see you and see the potential. They envision that they can change how you dress, what you like to do, how you act etc. They want to mold you into their perfect guy.
Many women realize that they have less in common with older guys. If you are 24 and struggling to get a foothold in the world, the odds are they are too.
Many women in their 20's still like to go out and party, club, hang with friends and do the things people in their 20's do and many guys in their 30's are over that.
There is also the stigma that sometimes comes with dating an older guy. If a 23-year-old girl is dating a 37-year-old guy many people, even without knowing her, will assume she is a gold digger and they don't want that perception.
These are just a few off the top of my head.
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I'm not sure which 20 something girls your talking about. I didn't get married until I was 43, and I had TONS of hot chicks in their 20s. From my mid 30s onward, I was dating pretty much every age group of girls from 20s to cougars, and everyone was having a great time. I had my game together, I knew how to keep them laughing, I knew how to party and I had the means to do it in style, I kept myself in good shape, I had convertable, boat, etc.... I had way more 20 something girls than I did when I was in my 20s.
Then I met my best friend in the whole world, and I wanted to have kids, etc, and now I just celebrated my 7th year married, my son is almost 2 years old, and I couldn't be happier. I feel no loss of freedom at all. You just need to find the person that has the same views on life and world as you do IMHO.
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