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Originally Posted by bossku69
there are two types of guys that are married. the ones that love it and want to have a wife with a family and the ones that got suckered into it.
the ones that got suckered in are the ones that have no sex, no fun and no life. I have plenty of those guys as friends, they all complain about the same shit... "wife sucks," "i hate my life," etc.
of course if you don't try and keep your woman occupied and happy, she will stop putting out.. duh! thats why idiots that get married after dating for 6 months wonder why things go south... because SHES BORED! 
Keep things interesting and things will be good.
No on the other hand, you have crazy bitches that go full psycho after marriage, demanding kids, pushing their family on you, complaining because you work to much, they cant spend enough of your money, etc.
In that case... best to just RUN! |
I would add a third kind. The kind that are codependent and need to be with someone.
I have a friend that was married for about 7 years. the last 2-3 years of his marriage were miserable. His wife was batshit crazy and eventually made him choose between his friends and her. They end up getting divorced. Nine months later he is seeing a new woman and is talking about getting married. Here is the catch. He has never wanted kids. She not only has four kids of her own she has two others that are adopted special needs kids. She also has an ex-husband who does nothing but cause drama.
When my friend tells me he is going to ask her to marry him a couple of other friends and I sit him down to talk to him. We point out the situation he will be getting into and that it is likely to make him miserable. He agrees then says, "It is better than being alone."
I have a feeling there are a decent number of people out there that feel the same way.