Let me try to answer the questions that would make everyone happy.
Here is our term:
http://www.datinggold.com/info.php?show=programs
Pay Per Free Signup
Also known as PPL or Pay Per Lead and PPF or Pay Per Free.
Earn commission for every male user that signs up and verifies his account.
This program is restricted to US, Canada and Australia male users only.
Pay Per Registration
Widely known as Pay Per Single Opt in.
Earn commission for every male user that signs up on our site(s).
Of course, we need to make sure that your traffic maintains over 50% confirmation ratio in order for us to allow you to participate. The higher confirmation rate you send to us the higher the rate we can offer you. This program is restricted to US, Canada and Australia male users only.
Because we are mostly dating, the term above is more for our Dating Programs.
On the cams, gender doesn't play in determining whether the leads is counted or not.
So to answer that question:
A lead is counted when a surfer signs up and check their email and click the link to confirm.
A single opt-in lead (available on dating only at this point), tracks the lead as soon as they complete the form. This program is mostly available for CPA networks who has affiliates that have been proven to be legit.
We also can target Age, and Geo Location with CPA networks.
As far as asking his account, we wanted to make sure that his statement is not base on assumption.
And if we are in the wrong, we can fix it.
If you run a program and someone posted that your program scams people, would you not ask he same question?