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Old 05-11-2013, 08:44 AM  
Jel
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Originally Posted by BareBacked View Post
10 min just to say be nice and have compassion ?
Not really - it's more about E+R=O where Event + Response = Outcome. So in the example of being in a queue, pissed off, every cunt taking their time, the event is the queue, and your response, whether it be pissed off-ness > anger > rage > etc; or ok what's the very very *worst* thing that can happen here, or ok, that old lady taking fucking ages at the checkout might be having her only human contact for the week, or 'insert blah blah here' equals the outcome, which is either a good feeling (calmness) or a bad feeling (bad temperedness) which then has a knock-on effect for the next 10 minutes (whether you get out the car when the guy cuts you up, or whether you just let the guy carry on his way), and that has a knock-on effect when you get in and either snap at your kids for being noisy, or share their enthusiasm in seeing you, and so on and so on.

That's obviously just 1 example, and may not even strike a chord, but I can't be bothered to type more examples lol. I was a fucking angry, raging, cunt, who was so focused on every other cunt in my way, or obstructing my day somehow, that my default setting was: the world is full of cunts. It still *is* full of cunts, kinda, but I don't have to be one as well these days
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