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Originally posted by BlackCrayon
either you weren't giving her what she needed, or she was bored, or she is just a bitch. tho seeing how you were together for 4 years, i don't see the last one so much. tho there are many other possiblities but those seem to be the main ones. did she not give any explaination as to why she felt the need to look for attention and affection else where? anyhow, try and not dwell on it too much, im sure it will take some time before you are able to really start being with girls again. despite the attitude of some of the guys here money, hot sex, ect can't replace real love. im still hurting 9 months after my girl dumped my ass, it seems no matter how many chicks i meet, no one girl can come close to being what she is.
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That's what I was about to say... matty PLEASE don't think I'm blaming you, but you really ought to find out why she left you for someone else. If not for your own piece of mind, then do it for the next girl you date. There may be something that you do without realizing it that drove her away. Then again, she could just be a slut, I don't know.
And BlackCrayon, that's a very mature response from you. I know some guys are probably truly happy in their lives of fucking several different girls a week, but it's refreshing to hear about guys who realize that there can be more to life than pussy.
I like sex, but I'm DAMNED glad my husband and I have more that a sex life in common. I really need a guy that I can watch Star Trek with and he fit that bill just perfectly. Hehe.