Originally Posted by TheSquealer

You're driving your car. Everyone keeps honking at you and flipping you off. You keep telling yourself you're a great driver. You keep telling yourself that "everyone else is the problem" because otherwise, you can't really reconcile the fact that you are getting this constant negative feedback throughout the day, which directly contradicts what you want to believe. In the meantime, everyone is still honking at you and flipping you off.

The question should be "at what point do i stop and actually take an honest look at how i'm driving, considering the fact that everyone is honking at me and flipping me off every time I drive?" - or do you choose to live the rest of your life in denial with everyone on the road honking at you and flipping you off? Of course you can surround yourself with similar asshole drivers who will also tell you the problem is "everyone else". But that will never help you live a more fulfilling and happier life... it just helps you to deny the problem.