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Originally Posted by dyna mo
look, i get it, we all get it, you were in a band & got laid in the 80s.
that's neat and all but beside the point i was making, which was-
people's thoughts, behaviors, and actions are influenced by social constructs. it's myopic to believe that porn does not influence sexual thoughts and behaviors.
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I'm only trying to tell you that I saw (and still see to this very day) a LOT of girls from EVERYWHERE in the U.S.
And what I saw (and still see) completely contradicts what you're saying.
Also in MY experience people were already doing all the things that are done in porn years and years before it was ever put online on the internet.
I was a little too young to have attended all the famous orgies and sex parties in New York at Studio 54...but for you or anyone else who thinks that people weren't throwing down with kinky sex and shaved pussy a long time before internet porn...you're just wrong.
Think about all the crazy Hollywood parties that Jack Nicholson threw (and supposedly even FILMED) in the 1960's for instance.
Do porn scenes "influence" people. Maybe, but not the way you think it does.
For instance...I personally already had my kinky thoughts when I was a teenager. When I was 18 I read the book "Thy Neighbors Wife" by Gay Talese. It's a book about swinging.
Did it "influence" me? Yeah, because it re-affirmed that I wasn't alone in my sexual desires and fantasies.
But it didn't show me anything "new" that I hadn't already thought of to begin with.
So yeah, maybe some girls want to shave their pussy but thought it might be weird to do and then saw a porn with shaved pussy and said: "Okay! Now I feel free to do so"
But it's not the "monkey see, monkey do" scenario that you are suggesting. My experience (and MILLIONS of other people who were doing the same thing as me in the 1970's, 1980's , 1990's, 2000's and today) say differently.
EDIT: By the way, you still never told me where you were living in the 1980's that was the land of hairy bush. heh-heh
I'm just curious where you were located in the time period and kept getting tons of pube.
DOUBLE EDIT: I'm suggesting that the PORN mirrors real life. Not the other way around. Maybe it's myopic to believe that porn is creating all the sexual fantasies instead of just fulfilling them