Originally Posted by AdultKing

This is probably going to sound really harsh, so please accept this is not personal but just an observation.

Not everyone is cut out for this biz and some people despite trying alot of different things just make no money. Perhaps you just need to consider whether you wouldn't be better placing your efforts elsewhere.

On your specific question, you don't need to be in a blog directory to get traffic and the best traffic you can receive at this stage of your business is to get targeted search engine traffic. There's no short cut, you just need to create compelling content on your blogs day in day out and build build build. Your job is to tempt surfers to become porn subscribers and then deliver them to the sponsor that has sites that match what the surfer is interested in.