Originally Posted by epitome

You kept your porn career hidden from your wife and she promptly divorced you after discovering you were living a lie.

You are not one to give relationship advice.

Perhaps if you were more open and honest in your relationship from the beginning like the OP and his girl you wouldn't be divorced.

I know religious people like to bury desires in the closet and make sex some dirty thing but it is perfectly normal and being an anonymous phone sex operator shouldn't ruin things like it did when you were secretly meeting and filming girls while your wife thought you were at your regular job.