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Originally Posted by Donny
No matter WHAT she says now about how cool she is with this and how it isn't going to affect your relationship, I guarantee she will someday tell you that the fact that you let her do this made her feel like you didn't care or that you must not have loved her. Please listen to me. I'm speaking from experience here. Women are just wired differently than us. She might act like she's cool with this, and she very well MAY be... but she is NOT cool with YOU being cool with it, regardless of what she says.
The money isn't worth it. Choose your woman over money. Seriously. I am about 99% sure you WON'T listen to me but I am also 99% sure a day will come when you'll wish you had. Show jealousy. Let her know you care. Let her know she's special. Don't be an idiot. Please.
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You kept your porn career hidden from your wife and she promptly divorced you after discovering you were living a lie.
You are not one to give relationship advice.
Perhaps if you were more open and honest in your relationship from the beginning like the OP and his girl you wouldn't be divorced.
I know religious people like to bury desires in the closet and make sex some dirty thing but it is perfectly normal and being an anonymous phone sex operator shouldn't ruin things like it did when you were secretly meeting and filming girls while your wife thought you were at your regular job.