I have never dyed my hair, so I have had grey hair for awhile (or white hair as men in my family are prone to do). I already have male pattern baldness near the back of my head too, but still wear my hair long, so although I have a bald spot, I wear a hat most of the time, so no one notices - or at least they are not looking me in the face when they notice).
At this stage in my life, I am happy to still have hair.
ADG