ok so I'm converting a members area into wordpress & flv vids, and run into the following problems:
FV Wordpress Flowplayer:
Autoplays videos, no matter what the settings, or specific parameters within the post. I run this on quite a few blogs, with no such problem. Cannot figure out why it insists on auto-starting in this particular instance (wp 3.3.1, theme elements-of-seo) so attempted to use;
Hana Flv Player:
1. Can't set a startimage
2. When playing, it brings up the first few lines of html from the tour index and overlays it on the video

Now, the html is in another directory entirely (obviously, beings tour is on root) so that one is severely doing my nut in.
Anyone have any ideas?