Also remember Scott, that FEMALE cats are dominant and wear the pants in the cat world, and more likely to give you attitude ...
You will not get the same amount of affection from a female cat typically that you will get from a MALE cat. Females tend to call the shots, while males are quite content to sit in your lap and have you fuss over them ...
Of course your mileage will vary. This is only a generalization. I have friends with very boisterous boys, as well other friends with very affectionate girls, and even our Himalayan has become much more affectionate towards my wife since her pregnancy ...