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Originally posted by SleazyDream
when i was dating in college I figgired something out.
Whenever I wanted a women I hardly EVER got her unless I worked like crazy on her for days and days and then it wasn't the kind of relationship I wanted cause I had to keep working at it to make it continue. So i gave up and said to myself, I'm just gona be an ASSHOLE - a friendly asshole, but an asshole that doesn't care one way or the other if I pick up a girl or not.
I still made nice comments to all women I found attractive. I'd ask them to dance, I'd talk to them and make them feel special, but I wouldn't focus on ONE women EVER over an evening. I'd make a POINT not to focus on one women. This was the REAL key.
The wierd thing is, as SOON as I took that stance I had to BEAT THE WOMEN away with a stick. I got laid almost every night I went out with that attitude. I was like a babe magnet, and I enjoyed going out a LOT more cause i had no expectations.
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cant i just be me and find someone thats just as simple..
cus what i hate more then anything is playing those types of stupid games