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Old 02-03-2012, 02:40 PM  
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At the point the child is around both people, there needs to be a guideline established that the male can start to impose some rules and punishments to create order.. and they need to be followed through on.. Kids can ruin a relationship easily.. Ultimately the mother has the say so since it is her child, but there has to be some shared "parenting" because in the end if they get married they'll both be parenting 24/7 until that kid moves out.. It must be mutual..
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