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All this drama asides, here's what I'd say:
Become a more interesting person. If you're into solitary activities, you're not very knowledgeable/well-read and you don't have very expansive tastes, develop those areas. Read more books, develop a well-rounded political opinion, learn more about the arts... Then take these interests and do social things with them. Join an organization supporting a specific political cause, volunteer at an animal shelter, get involved in a community arts organization... You'll meet people there and you'll actually have something to say. Looks don't matter nearly as much as you think if you're a genuinely interesting person with an air of confidence.
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