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if you can't figure it out from here... there's no hope from you. looks have very little to do with it... your confidence has EVERYTHING to do with it.
In just a couple sentences, you positioned yourself as a classic beta male with nothing to offer anyone but sorry and misery. That's not attractive to women... not even to fat chicks. You can easily change that and change how people react to you as a result.