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Originally Posted by nextri
The sooner you tell her, the better. You should have mentioned it on date 1. If she has a problem with it, she's not worth spending any more time on.
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Agreed.
I learned in my early 20's that it is better to just get all of your shit out in the open at the beginning. Before porn, I would disclose the foot fetish as it's nothing I could turn on or off. If they were not going to be comfortable with it, no need to waste my time. Same if they like anal sex. I am not interested in that, nor will my mind be open to it. There are some other quirks sexually I have no interest in, as well as the drugs aspect.
I do not judge people if they like smoking weed, or want to be a crackhead. It's their life, and their choice. However, I do not want to be around that kind of stuff or risk being pulled over and they have it in their purse, or whatever. I have no interest in "sharing" in the drug experience and risks. Just a personal preference.
Getting such things out in the beginning saves you a lot of time ans annoyance. This is assuming you are actually looking for a relationship, versus just someone to fuck a few times and throw away. Most women are disposable pleasures.
