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Originally Posted by MisterPeabody
Wonderful post man!! Very inspiring. The trouble sometimes is finding the "right person", especially when you are in the porn biz. "What do you do?" "Oh, I sell porn on the Internet....hey wait, where ya goin'?" LOL
Share the details of how you found your one in a million? Was it NLP?  |
To "hook up" with a lot of women, to get the dates, I found a book called "The Game" useful and it mentioned NLP, actually.
I needed to be able to recognize my one in a million, and quickly and decisively recognize those candidates who while attractive, were not my one in a million.
First, I was told to make a list, on paper, with three parts:
What elements do I want in a relationship? honesty, mutual respect, etc.
What do I want to get out of it; what's the payoff? A supportive partner, drama free sex, whatever.
What kind of woman do I want to be with? Easy going (not a drama queen), cheerful, etc.
Reviewing the list every few days, BE the things on the list, I was taught. My list mentioned honesty a couple times, so I had to go out and be rigorously honest. I wanted a reasonable sex life. Seeking a woman who was neither a nympho nor frigid, I proceeded to be reasonable about sex, not being a perv myself.
While practicing these things with the help of people I respect, I looked at every woman who came within ten feet and either eliminated them right away (not single, way too young, etc) or said hello to them. Looking for one on a million, I needed to take notice of a lot of women and say hello to many. Most revealed something within two minutes, such as by screaming at their kid as we talked, which ended the conversation.
While practicing being honest, supportive, respectful, joyful, etc. I attracted a woman who was the same (but more so). Now we are honest, supportive, respectful, and joyful with each other.