Originally Posted by shade001

I can honestly say that if I manage to escape my marriage with my cojones intact I will absolutely NEVER get married again.

The only small advantage to marriage is filing taxes. Other than that is is a nightmare if you like making your own decisions, answer to yourself and have any integrity you want to keep.

At BEST marriage is a constant state of compromises, making decisions by a committee of two and being nailed down by someone who thinks they should know every little move you make.

At worst...........let's not even go there. RUN! Run while you can. That's my absolute best and honest advice.

Don't misunderstand. I don't hate my wife nor am I bitter. I just see clearly now how entangled I am legally to another person and getting out will be costly to say the least.