Originally Posted by CDSmith

Getting a wife so you have a maid? That's a new one. No wonder the D rate is so high. :D

I think "being alone" gets way too bad a rap. So many fear it yet in the past I've found that it's really not something to be feared. Oh gee, you can go out when you want, do what you want, eat where you want, (and WHAT you want, WHEN you want), watch what you want on TV, fart when you want,.... yeah, oooh, I'm scared just thinking about it! ha.

I can think of several people I know who are married or in long term relationships who could benefit from getting out and being alone and single for a year or more. I also know a few people who are single and alone right now who are great people and deserve to meet someone suited to them (assuming that's what they want). But it always seems to be the ones who fear the dreaded "being alone" the most that need it the most for some reason. Because they're the ones constantly seeking their happiness and validation from others when they really need to find a way to be okay with themselves first.


Me, I've done everything BUT the M word. Lived a fine single life, have been in several long termers, and have spent time alone. And I'm fine with all of it. If someone great comes along in future would I consider marriage? Of course I would. In the meantime I think I'll go fishing and get out of the maid's way.