Originally Posted by baddog

Bingo. That was my point. I could tell by the original post that the OP was fairly young. 25 is the bare minimum for a committed relationship. 23 is definitely too young, especially since you guys have already been together 2.5 years.

Let her get her life together and when she is ready, if it is right, you will be. But you are expecting too much from that little girl. It sounds like she is more aware than are. Don't be selfish. Go enjoy life.