Originally Posted by BlackCrayon

don't go for strippers, you are wasting their time. like many have said, using guys is their profession. she might not be using you for money but to be that guy friend she can hang out with without the need to fuck (or something similar).

there are plenty of hot chicks out there who do all sorts of shit. the key is to find one that is also into crazy sex because thats more fun. there is nothing worse than a hot girl who is a boring lay. you might have to play a bit of the jerk role at first, depending on the girl but eventually you can be more and more yourself but really if you constantly have to act like someone else and play these stupid teenager games, whats the point? its all about finding someone you can be yourself with and get what you want/need out of it. of course you'll have to give her some of the things she wants/needs. sometimes it work, often it won't. sucks, doesn't it?