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You gave him money, you gave him a job......it's up to him to get out of the gutter. Relationships like this, drain you emotionally. Get out before you get yourself sick. If he wants serious help, he'll ask you. If not, don't push it on him - 1) he doesn't appreciate it 2) he hasn't decided it's time for him to move on
You'll only be hurting yourself....the money is just material - work a little harder or longer and you'll make it back. The fact that you take it upon yourself to help him, will only hurt you and weigh on the relationship and drain you emotionally, which can eventually bring you to a depressed state.
Tell him you bought him skates, you brought him to the rink.......now skate or find your own way home!
BTW... I commend you for trying to help him.......and it's always heartbreaking to see someone hurting.......but there's only so much you can do.
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