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UnseenWorld · 06-06-2003, 06:09 PM

Know what a "codependent" is? It's someone who is trying to make someone change or waiting for someone to change (more technically: "a psychological condition or a relationship in which a person is controlled or manipulated by another who is affected with a pathological condition"). I assume that people don't change. Saves me a lot of grief. If you're not happy with this person and this person doesn't really respond to that, HE is not YOUR friend. Why should you be his? And if you're not legally bound to them (e.g., married), just walk away. RIGHT NOW. If you can't do that, then sign up with a counselor who specializes in codependency.

06-06-2003, 06:09 PM
UnseenWorld Confirmed User Join Date: May 2001 Location: Portland, OR, USA Posts: 5,279	Know what a "codependent" is? It's someone who is trying to make someone change or waiting for someone to change (more technically: "a psychological condition or a relationship in which a person is controlled or manipulated by another who is affected with a pathological condition"). I assume that people don't change. Saves me a lot of grief. If you're not happy with this person and this person doesn't really respond to that, HE is not YOUR friend. Why should you be his? And if you're not legally bound to them (e.g., married), just walk away. RIGHT NOW. If you can't do that, then sign up with a counselor who specializes in codependency. __________________ SIG TOO BIG! Maximum 120x60 button and no more than 3 text lines of DEFAULT SIZE and COLOR. Unless your sig is for a GFY top banner sponsor, then you may use a 624x80 instead of a 120x60.