Question: I've caught my boyfriend masturbating while putting things in his anus. Recently, I also found condoms and dildos plus Vaseline. He said he masturbates with the condom and he likes the sensation of masturbating with anal stimulation. I question his sexuality because I threw out the first dildo and he just went out and bought another one. Do you think he has homosexual tendencies?
Answer: Liking anal stimulation does not equal homosexuality. Many men and women enjoy having their anuses stimulated or stimulate it themselves during masturbation. On the other hand, some gay men do not. The two have no connection with each other.
Instead of throwing out his toys, why not talk to him and see how you might find a way to share the experience? You may decide you want no part of it, and that is okay, too. But, regardless, this has no bearing on his sexual orientation.
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