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Originally posted by rooster
I can see her point somewhat. 5 years is too long to be dating. Either your going to marry her or not. Guys have a tendancy to want to get into these long term relationships, live with the girl, and basically do everything like married life, except commit.
Her family probably just drilled that into her head.
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Ok , well coming from a woman here is my two cents and a quarter. I agree that the family is having influence on this situation but the reality of it is.. she wants marriage and you havent proposed yet? Her family probably told her why would you buy the cow if you are getting the milk for free scenario...Which in some cases that sucks for a girl because if she is wanting to get married and you arent in any rush and she is doing everything a wife would do in the relationship then.. she probably is feeling cheated and her familys influence has just surfaced and emphasized those feelings that she was already having? The best thing though, instead of being selfish about not getting any and pissed off... treat her good , remember most importantly to do those little things for her ONCE in AWHILE that you know she likes AND most important , get her to talk about what is going on inside her head. The longer you go without it ... the more pissed she is getting too. Because she is sitting there.. thinking all kinds of crazy shit and now shes thinking your an ass for not asking her to talk about what is on her mind. Get her to open up and then shell open her legs...to be blunt. Hope that helps ;) The doctor is in... ha ha!
Ok , so i love giving advice...
