We have been together for over 5 years, living together for 4...and we've had joint accounts for 2 so it was just a matter of time. That being said, we did surprise everyone including our families which was pretty fun. It might not be for everyone, but I'm definitely glad we skipped all the expense and bullshit that comes with a big traditional wedding. Luckily my lady felt the same way.
Now let's hear all the advice from those who have gone before me.
