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You're not a customer.
If she met you at a club, got your number at the club, never hung out with you outside the club and only wants to see you at the club... you're a customer.
I have girls text me all the time that I don't spend a dollar on wanting me to come in and see them at work. Happens a few times a week. I go once in awhile, but reality is they're all friends of mine and know what's up.
Don't make a big deal out of her being a stripper. You want to win major points? Help her make money. Here's what I do with my ex.
She sits on my lap talking to me and I look around looking for guys that are looking at her. I tell her who to go talk to, she goes, makes her money and comes back. When she goes on stage I throw some money at her. I drink, she buys me drinks and I buy her drinks. That way she's not the awkward girl standing around without anyone to talk to, I help her make money, and I'm not the awkward guy sitting there by himself the whole time and I get more quality girls coming up to me. It's a win-win.
My advice is go, have some fun. If she is spending way too much time with you, tell her to go off and make money. Go outside and make a few phone calls or whatever. Just don't let your going hurt her money or she'll blame you for it.
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