You should ask yourself:
Will you be jealous to see her give lap dances?
Will you spend any money on her?
What is being there going to do any goods or bads? Will it jeopardize or facilitate the relationship?
I dont know what strippers think or do but if my work involves anything related to flirting with males, even if it is solely for work, I still dont want my man to see. Dont want to hurt him and less drama.
