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Originally Posted by iwantchixx
It's not that she cares if I get sick or not, she just has a "nothing will happen" mentality that her daddy drove into her her entire life and did everything for her to fix everything then spent 10 years with the same type of person before meeting me.
She's come a LONG way since I met her but because SHE feels it's ok, my concerns fall on deaf ears and doesn't even take any heart into sticking up for something I feel so strongly for protecting our family.. instead she takes off and spends the afternoon with this person who still has the flu bug in her system.
There's been many things I never believed was a good idea at all (like moving to her home town) but if she feels strongly about something I support the one I love in it no matter what and had to kindly remind her of that fact that we are supposed to support each other on things either one of us feel strongly about.. falls on deaf ears and does everything in her power to go against being told "no".
Love her to death but this closed-minded "ill do what i want because nothing will happen" mentality gets very tiring..
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It sounds like being chained to a rock..
It sounds like you tolerate all kinds of ridiculous shit and try to do whatever you can to make her happy and give her anything she wants - that definitely is no way to handle a woman.. and doesn't lead to them being very happy (I've been in your exact situation with two different women...)
Have you tried spanking her??