iwantchixx

no, but an altercation dealing with a drunk father-in-law around our baby ended up with me breaking my hand.

long story shortened a bit i made a promise I would never kick her dads ass, there's a lot of issues in her family and her brother knocked him out for drunken behavior already, he made me promise to never lay a hand on him when he gets out of line, that he'll deal with it himself. Out of respect for my gf and her bro I ended up punching a wall after he woke my baby n started feeding her when she wasn't even hungry n throwing her around til she pukes. we lived at her parents for a month when this all happened, he's close-minded against anything, insults everything that's different than their way of life, that he doesn't understand and will follow you around picking everything a person does and does everything in his power to stop her n i from having control over our own family. He's doing this because he cant read and thinks i am out to take his girl away from him because I'm smart and can read. he gets violent and threatening in nature when drinking. we both decided not to buy house next door to them so he threw a huge fit went n got drunk n wouldn't let me even put my own 8 month old baby to sleep nor even hold her. kept taking her away n saying "is this what YOU want to do with/for her or what mom wants?" and if its not my gf's idea i cant do it, not allowed. i lost temper, my gf ripped into him n cussed him out, he grabbed her, lunged at me n i reminded him how he's only still standing because i allow him to get away with it and I'm not letting him fuck with me or my family anymore. punched a wall n walked away. we moved out 2 days later.

my own fault hand is broke but they have responsibility in the events that lead to it. i minded my own biz for 4 weeks n never ever said anything back to them.. had to blow at some point.

he doesnt get along with her bro n beat him most of his childhood but treated her like a princess. He cannot stand men in his life at all. he goes as far as to say he'll make sure my name is never on anything so he can protect his baby. we moved into town and never looked back, he's never allowed to see his granddaughter if he gets caught drunk around her again and he knows we put our foot down, not a damn word edgewise out of him since towards me or what decisions we make. his is OUR family unit, not his.

theres a lot more to story, since day my daughter was born its been her parents mission to make all her choices for her and ignore everything i say or do, even if my gf wanted me to. we are 31/32.. we can handle it ourselves n my kid will NOT grow up seeing what my gf seen growing up. period