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Originally Posted by goldassets
so you hit your children?
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Spank. The 3 or four little hits that go on her butt is less than me giving a boring speaker a curtsey clap when he is done speaking.
I dont yell. And i dont ever loose my temper. The 3 times I spanked my daughter I was not mad or upset. It was one of those things that i calculated very carefully.
As a resault of those 3 times that I did spank her she has been night and day different. Now when she misbehaves all I have to do is count to 3. She immediately stops what she is doing. Her 1st spanking was 4 month ago and her last spanking was 6 weeks ago.
Never spanked her before she was 3. I did not believe she would understand why I was spanking her. Before she was two, she was an angel. Perfect in every way. And prior to 3 and before spankings she was an absolute terror.
As I have learned in the last 3 years, you need to correct your kids early and not out of anger. If you dont... I have not gotten that far yet.
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Originally Posted by Deej
Sounds to me like Dave has it just right.
If you define a spanking as hitting then yes... kids are hit and need to be more often. So many parents are afraid these days of punishing their children even in the most right ways.
I blame the jews...
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I was one of those that thought spankings were bad and time outs were the way to go. I promised myself I would never spank my kid. When you get ran over time in and time again, day in day out , it sux. I learned there is a right way and a wrong way to spank your child and it does not work.
SPANKINGS!!! Work!
Like i said, before 3 or 4 smacks on the butt with a stern voice will keep your daughter straight and off of the "POLE".