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Originally Posted by The Demon
I'm pretty sure the majority of the people in here just agreed with me. It may be ok for them but not for their kids and you'll rarely see anyone say "I LOVE TEH PORN BUSINESS" unless they are morons(you), or want their lives to have some kind of validation.
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way to perpetuate a common myth.. No job will give you validation, that is only something you can get from yourself. You think if you are working construction or cutting down trees for a living you will have a special bounce in your step because you are doing something more important and productive? Believe me you wont. Now you are going to think; hey what about doctors, lawyers and engineers? Those are some of the most important jobs on the planet. Surely those people are living fulfilled and happy lives right? All that would show is that you haven't talked with any doctors, lawyers or engineers.. I have known plenty of each in my time and haven't known many that are more happier than i am. I'm not going to argue that those jobs aren't important, because they most certainly are, but they wont make you happy, they wont give you validation.
You have to find that within yourself and your actions. The job is just something you make some money with. If you try to find validation in a job you will be miserable your entire life.