Originally Posted by nation-x

Sex does not equal love or commitment...

It's simple really... I like fucking and so does my wife. We are funny like that... and variety in our fucking makes it even better.

If my wife wants to leave me (for whatever reason), she will leave and so will your wife or girlfriend. If a bigger cock is the reason... well I guess I have to deal with the fact that there are indeed other men with bigger cocks than me. However, in my wifes case... she doesn't really like big cocks... so no worries there. My 7 inches are just fine to meet her needs. In general, I find that men who think like you are much more focused on cock than their wives or girlfriends. Maybe you should consider the fact that you are infatuated with cock.

Even when I wasn't married I got alot of sex because I am not really all that particular. I like variety and some of the best sex I have ever had was with girls that were fairly plain looking. Most women can pretty much get all of the sex they want...

A cuckold is someone who just wants to watch their wife get fucked... typically, they sit in the corner and just watch. They get off on their own victimization. I am not a cuckold.

I think that any man that says that they don't want to fuck anyone but their wife/girlfriend is a liar. Same goes for women to a lesser degree because women just don't think the same way as men about sex, generally speaking. However, they do have sexual fantasies about other men... whoever that may be. The difference is the desire to actually do the deed... and if given the opportunity... I am sure that most women will cheat just as men do for sexual reasons.

I reject the notion that humans are monogamous by instinct. I have never met a single man who doesn't look at someone other than their spouse/girlfriend and have a sexual desire for that other person. Men are generally pretty slutty. If it weren't true... there wouldn't be a porn industry. What "vanilla" men don't like is their wife/girlfriend thinking about fucking another man... because they are lightly misogynist by nature. They view women as property rather than person to a degree. They objectify women sexually and that is why there are "porn addicts".

You may not believe this... but the swinger lifestyle is more about empowering the female than the male. The primary focus is her pleasure. Women make the rules (for the most part) in the swinger lifestyle.

In addition, many women in the lifestyle don't fuck any men but their husbands... they are bi-sexual and they will participate in girl/girl play with the husbands watching and then same room sex afterwards or they will do a threesome with another female and their husband. I have had so many threesomes that I can't even count them anymore.

Here is what I think is funny... porn people judging swingers and swingers judging porn people. It makes no sense to me... but it is indeed the case.