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harvey · 11-21-2010, 10:47 PM

wow, some opinions here... you'd think that for people dealing with morally questionable content (for bourgeois society standards) people would be more open minded, but guess many are as rigid as a Lutheran pastor.

First thing first: why most people here thinks it's OK to fuck any random girl, but that girl hasn't the same right as you? Just FYI, the more chauvinist you go, the more you'll be cheated. News flash.

Now, to the OP: your first mistake is to ask for opinions in this board. Or any other board. It seems you have a healthy relationship with your girl and she trusts you enough to be open about her fantasies. I won't tell you to let her do that or to let her not. By principle, I'm opposed to the whole idea of a person belonging to me, and be assured that she'll do what she want anyway at some point. Maybe even backing up, sometimes fantasies are cool as long as they're just fantasies, when they turn real many people gets scared.

So I'd tell you to just talk to her. Find a comfort zone where you both trust the decision you make is the best for both of you, whether she goes with another man or if she understands why that situation is uncomfortable for you. If needed, talk to a psychologist o find professional advice. Remember, your happiness, your life, your relationship is way too important to trust other people you don't even know face to face (even mine). Do the right, smart thing. Maybe you'll discover her fantasy gives a boost to your relationship. Maybe she'll understand why her fantasy should be kept strictly as that.

But whatever you do, be as firm, calm and objective as possible, but don't treat her as a belonging: 99% chances you'll end sad, alone and hating the world wishing you could turn back history.

11-21-2010, 10:47 PM
harvey Confirmed User Industry Role: Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: 127.0.0.1 Posts: 9,266	wow, some opinions here... you'd think that for people dealing with morally questionable content (for bourgeois society standards) people would be more open minded, but guess many are as rigid as a Lutheran pastor. First thing first: why most people here thinks it's OK to fuck any random girl, but that girl hasn't the same right as you? Just FYI, the more chauvinist you go, the more you'll be cheated. News flash. Now, to the OP: your first mistake is to ask for opinions in this board. Or any other board. It seems you have a healthy relationship with your girl and she trusts you enough to be open about her fantasies. I won't tell you to let her do that or to let her not. By principle, I'm opposed to the whole idea of a person belonging to me, and be assured that she'll do what she want anyway at some point. Maybe even backing up, sometimes fantasies are cool as long as they're just fantasies, when they turn real many people gets scared. So I'd tell you to just talk to her. Find a comfort zone where you both trust the decision you make is the best for both of you, whether she goes with another man or if she understands why that situation is uncomfortable for you. If needed, talk to a psychologist o find professional advice. Remember, your happiness, your life, your relationship is way too important to trust other people you don't even know face to face (even mine). Do the right, smart thing. Maybe you'll discover her fantasy gives a boost to your relationship. Maybe she'll understand why her fantasy should be kept strictly as that. But whatever you do, be as firm, calm and objective as possible, but don't treat her as a belonging: 99% chances you'll end sad, alone and hating the world wishing you could turn back history. __________________ This post is endorsed by CIA, KGB, MI6, the Mafia, Illuminati, Kim Jong Il, Worldwide Ninjas Association, Klingon Empire and lolcats. Don't mess around with it, just accept it and embrace the truth