I know this will sound idiotic but I have never spent anytime with how my sites rank on Google. I did a search with FrugalJohn and got this:
http://directory.google.com/Top/Adul...s/Female/?il=1
I am at the top of a category but with a low ranking.
My other heavy traffic site isn't even listed. Oops
It looks like I should spend more time on this stuff.