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Originally Posted by xxweekxx
im tired of hearing people say they want kids so they can have someone there for them when they grow old.. go to a retirement home and see thousands of old people who have kids and their kids disappeared..
what makes u think ur kid will want to take care of u when you are old? chances are they will send u to a retirement home and call u once in a while to check up on u
as for me im not having kids, i think its selfish unless i can guarantee the kid a 100% easy life.. who wants to work their whole life and worry about shit? im sure tons of people wish they were never born...
and i think its stupid to have kids when u barely have enough money to support yourself... anyway the world is too over populated.. we need to stop popping out babies..
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A lot of what you said is true. But to be negative about your children abandoning you isn't reason enough for everyone to not have kids. Sounds like you've seen too many negative experiences, I can relate to that.
I also know many older people who raised well balanced humans and enjoy many years of happy family time. That's what I am going for.
