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Originally Posted by Sarah_MaxCash
Its great to spend time with him and I am pretty sure he will take his first step on my watch. So, it does even out.
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When you are calm and at ease enough to sit back and watch life, you realize there is ALWAYS a balance.
So when it gets really rough, just know it will flip back. When we have a bad day, it is almost always followed by a really good day. And when we have a good day I am thinking about how the next day might not be so easy. lol
But if you just bitch at your kid, and don't give them the time they need, of course they'll make your life more difficult. I'll play and play with my daughter just so she tires out and sleeps, and then I can relax. Opposed to getting frustrated with her and her crying and us both being stressed out. But so many people make kids and aren't ready, and they end up making kids with all these psychological issues because they are nutjobs themselves.
And people who wish their kids were babies again. Puhleeze. Babies are adorable, but I wanted to make another person, not just a baby. I can't stand that puppy syndrome shit!
In the end if you are ready, it is worth it. But tread with caution ha ha