sorry to hear that.... it will be very hard to forget.....
a few years ago I left my house to go pick up my friend. I saw a car on the way go out of control and was wrapped around a pole. Didnt think anything of it until I got to my friends house and was very worried about his dad because he was diabetic and it was a little after dinner time and he was concerned that his dad didnt eat.
I mentioned the accident I saw to him but not in the context that I thought it was his dad. He insisted on going to the scene so we drove over there. It turned out it was his father. A cop pulled me to the side and told me his dad didnt make it and it would be best to let the hospital tell him and his family the news.
I had to call his family and tell them to come to the hospital. No one except me knew he was dead and I will never forget the screams I heard when the had the whole family in a private room in the hospital and I was way down the hall in the waiting area.
Anyhow... its best that you talk to the family to let them know what happened... very odd how death can come out of nowhere
