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if you haven't made this a part of your relationship, and both he and you consider your relationship exclusive, yes - it's cheating.
most of the men i know who say to their gf/wives "oh, honey, it's not cheating" go fucking insane if their woman does the shit they do at the strip clubs. apparently it's only not cheating if you're a man *LOL*
don't you believe that bullshit about "if you excited him at home, he wouldn't go to strip clubs". i've seen guys with boring wives i can't imagine why they're with who never go to strip clubs, and guys with gorgeous, exciting, sexually on wives who greet them at the door in sexy lingerie or go to dinner with no underwear and masturbate under the table, then have him taste her finger for dessert. a guy that wants to have sexual contact with other women is going to do it no matter what you do or don't do, and whether you like it or not. find someone who shares your opinion of what a relationship is. why compromise about the person you share your life with?
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