Originally Posted by munki

depends on how my kids handle life...

I had an ex's parents who actually showed me a pretty solid path, that I think I will stick with... Their children had no restrictions, until they fucked something up... i.e.

If you are top of your class, holding down school/work, etc... you don't have a curfew and no rules are set...

If you are B average, dating an asshole/reject etc... you get 10pm curfew

C average, or worse troubles... you are on absolute lockdown till you learn to balance your life reasonably to enjoy the simple pleasures...