Originally Posted by ShellyCrash

Tell them straight up before you even really get to know them and then hang out with them as friends for a bit before dating so you can feel them out on where they stand with it.

You're going to meet guys who are going to want you to get out of it and guys who are going to want to "save you" from the industry, also you'll find scumbags who are turned on by it and think because you're in adult they can try to do something wacky like try and fuck you in the ear or some shit

But yeah, that's how I handle it. There are guys out there who will understand what you do is just a job like anything else.