Originally Posted by ShellyCrash

Agreed!
Its as they say, desperation is a stinky cologne! I have a guy friend who's lady of 12+ yrs out of the blue up left him for another dude. You would think he might want to loosen up and maybe play the field- that's what I've been trying to steer him towards- but instead he's become despirate, clingy, etc. His dates have gone really bad, he asks them deep personal questions like about kids and shit on the first date, every girl he's gone out with has ended "Swingers" style, too many phone calls, too many text messages, too much too soon.

That type of talk only works on eharmony, who's success I personally believe is more fueled by fear of being alone than expert "matching".