Originally Posted by TheDoc

My solution was to look within myself to see what I truly wanted, liked, and enjoyed... not caring what anyone else would think or care. Then I started doing those things. Now I'm motivated because of this, I set goals to improve myself. Which created more drive to better myself at work, staff, management, life, etc..

Success is only a perception of self satisfaction. The only way to please the self, is to accept what the self truly desires.