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Next your site is designed for a very high level surfer. You have a lot of links that rely on people being IN THE KNOW. I feel I'm in the know and I don't know what half of your links are. Ie http://www.beautifulfeetonline.com/front/icons/wpdn.jpg

Here is something to try. Go on a tube site for 10 or 20 minutes. Find content you like. Get worked a little worked up and in the jerk off state of mind. Then load your site (probably with only one hand available). With the blood flow not 100% upstairs surf your site and see how it feels then. My gut feeling is you have a super clean nice layout but it feels like it's for an advanced user. I'm just looking for porn.