Here is where the problem comes in. I teach webmasters and newbies, that is my biz. When someone come looking for me, and they see the name Sleazy and they see all these why is Sleazy be a dick, or why is he hated, that can reflect on me. There is some great things said about you, by some good people. You have a lot of knowlege, your well respected by a lot of people. You may be a fantastic person in person, but people see you for you by what you post on a board. I am not following you, I am just clearing up, that I am not you. Because there is a lot of people that know me from many years as Sleazy.
As far as your trademark, your not even protecting it.
Here your a division of
http://www.oxyg3ne.com/sleazydream/01.htm
and here your a search
http://searchsleazydream.com/ and if you refresh enough times you will find adult links. Which is someone using your name. A violation of your trademark.