On the Dating side I would suggest
DatingGold. Why I suggest them is cause they run a fuckload of promos, has established dating sites ( but not saturated ) and a fuckload of promo tools.
On the cam side I am trying out a new program, their "free credits banners" actually convert good!
MetroMoney.com
I'll run them for 1-2 month and compare, as I used Cams.com earlier, but I didnt like their 20% revshare.